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Is your proposal just a few details short of perfect? Send our expert, Steve, your most pressing questions. From proposals to picking a ring to how much to tip the waiter for hiding the ring in her dessert, Steve has the answers that will help you make those finishing touches!
Questions of the Week
Dear Steve,
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 years. She says she is not "pressuring" me into marriage, but I can feel it. I would love to propose to her, but the problem is that I have been out of work for a few months, and I don't know if I can afford a ring. I don't want to lose her. What should I do?
- Danny R.
Steve's answer:
Hey Danny, take this advice with a grain of salt from someone who still believes that love is the most important Gem. This is the perfect time to tell her exactly how you feel. Sounds like what she wants most is to know that you want to be with her. Whether you get her a little band, or a moderate diamond engagement ring, or even a cigar band (yep right off a cigar), it is what you feel that matters most. It's important to know now if this is the girl that will want to be there "for better or for worse." If she is and you two remain together, you can figure out the next steps.
Steve
Dear Steve,
I want to propose next spring but I'm kinda in a dilemma on how to ask. We have a beautiful state park near me which we both enjoy hiking on so I was thinking of doing it near an overlook. But I would like to add a little spice to it rather than just walking up to the overlook and doing it. Any ideas? Thanks for your time.
- Corey M.
Steve's answer:
Corey, you have the right idea about going to a place you both find special. I recommend you get there in advance and create a romantic scene. Take into account some special memories, music, lighting/candles if safe, and then decide if it's best for just the two of you or if you want others involved in the special occasion. The natural, real heartfelt elements can be the most meaningful. This can be done in an intimate romantic way and tailor made to reflect on special moments in your relationship. If you hike up there in advance and set up something to discover together, that could also be meaningful. Spice is nice, but real is the deal… Good luck!
Steve
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